Posted by: Dolphinelle~Barbara Napoles | January 7, 2011


I have had this writing called “Bitchology” for approximately 15 odd years. Its my mantra, my slogan, the words that bring me up when I am down.  I have no idea who the author is  its not my intellectual property and no copy-right infringement is intended.


When I stand up for my beliefs and myself they call me a B.i.t.c.h.

When I stand up for those I love, they call me a B.i.t.c.h.

When I speak my mind, think by own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a B.i.t.c.h.

Being a B.i.t.c.h means I won’t compromise what’s in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won’t allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a B.i.t.c.h.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself to do that that makes me happy, instead of being someone’s maid or when I act a little selfish.

It means that I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won’t become anyone else’s idea of what they think I “Should” be.

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me YOU WON’T SUCCEED! And, if that make me a B.i.t.c.h., so be it.

I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

B- Babe                      B- Beautiful                          B- Beautiful

I – in                           I – Intelligent                       I – Individual

T- total                      T – talented                          T – that

C- Control of             C – Charming                       C – can

H – herself                 H – Hell of a woman            H -handle anything


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